So, what is a whore? In the day and age I live in, it has become a difficult label to place, one of those I know it when I see it but I can't spell it out. Well, look no further for an answer, because I have it. As I write this, I belive I may have touched on the subject before, in atleast giving advice out to young women, but it'll still be funny a second time around I'm sure, and if not, you didn't pay anything for it, so don't complain. (and if you did pay something for it, if you find out a way to contact me I will gladly refund you the money that this particular page took up, percentage wise, of your purchase, but only if I had an original cut of the money, so you can't pay a friend to look at the sight, have him contact me, and I dish out money cause of your sweet scam. I'm talking book people, I don't even care about royalties, they could've paid me a lump sum, I'm okay with paying you as long as I got paid for it first)
The point is, a whore is someone who sleeps with three men that are friends/friendly with one another. It's okay for women to enjoy sex, and have it with multiple partners, or different partners over the course of time. Before, it was considered whorish for a woman to have sex before marriage, but a man was expected to atleast have one liason. Where the hell did that woman come from? Thank god for the whore? More like thank god for the haitian prostitute, african slave, or incestuous aunt sally. While most men would prefer their first time to be memorable, in truth, it was probably one of the worst women they'll ever sleep with. And if it wasn't, then you're in trouble, because if you haven't out done it and she's not your wife, you'll be spending a good amount of time pining over it instead of thinking that wasn't as good as I thought it was at the time. Some how, I got to talking about men when I was trying to talk about women, since men can't be whore's by societies definitions. Its thrown around as a joke, mind you, but no man will look at another man and say "whore!" or whisper "slut." under his breath unless he himself is wearing a pink cut off tee and electric hot pants. Although a movie has popularized a term, man-whore, it's still used as a joke, not a hurtful term.
Why three? Because, sadly getting back to men, men are dogs. Sure, there are a couple out there that may not drink, watch baseball, slap women on the butts, or think men are superior to women, but they are the exceptions, not the standard. Not including myself, I personally know only four men that I could fit into that area, not including all of those, but having one or two traits, plus some other qualities not mentioned that makes them decent, like a strong sense of responsibility, human decency, you know, qualities not usually found in men.
You put two men in a room that slept with the same woman, they might feel uncomfortable, maybe not. They might make a couple jokes, a third party might be like, whoa, you two!?! really, and they'd play it off like nothing. They could also start punching one another if one of them cares about her, or both do. You put three men in the same room who slept with the same room, and its joke fest 2054. If there's a crowd, itll be even bigger. Even if one of them cares about her, he would feel slighted if he admited it. If he's decent, which he most likely wouldn't be, he might stand up for her. However, peer pressure would dictate humorous bedroom anecdotes be shared. Even if he did stand up for her, his pleas would more than likely be disregarded unless he was the alpha male of the group, since they would think his attitude love-sick or immature, and thus not rational. Since whore is a social construct, having no meaning outside of the society that spawned the term, it seems to fit to define it through social interactions. It's a shame that the interactions are not based on the potential whore herself, but rather the men that she sleeps with, but such is the way, since women are such vultures that will attack anyone not in their circle while defending anyone within their circle even if its the same charge. It seems funny, that after bashing men for so long in this, and other essays, I basically say they are the lesser of the two evils, but... well... nothing.